I have a lovely Mother's Day - on the actual day I celebrate my mum, and we went to
Lotus in the city again, with my sister and two of the kids (who usually go to my Mother in law's to see the cousins but that wasn't happening this year so my husband went on his own).
Tonight we head out bowling with my kids because I want to play laser tag with them (and there's bonus arcade games thrown in so it's a full children's party type deal. Ha!)
My husband got me lovely tulips. But this is not the Mother's Day celebrations I want to talk about.
Mother's Day is an incredibly painful time for lots of people. They have difficult relationships with their Mothers. They are estranged from their kids. They've suffered loss. They can't have kids. There are a million reasons why they choose not to celebrate or struggle to get through the day.
In a chat about the opt out emails from shops, a woman said "I know it's woke but I'm sick of them" because she felt everyone was sending them and my friend responded she was all for it because "Mother's Day is a sh!tshow". I personally am mindful of how many of my friends have a hard time, so I have a social media blackout that day - I posted about Finland playing Sandstorm in shops and on the radio at the same time on the same day to celebrate it's 20 year anniversary. I feel I don't want to add to anyone's discomfort. I was at my happy celebration, I shared it with the people I needed to share it with. In person.
I saw this post for the first time though it's apparently been around for years. It was shared by two of my friends having a hard day. for different reasons. I think there's plenty of food for thought in it.
However, as with all these things, each to their own.
Linking with #SeniorSalonPitstop #TalkaboutitTuesday #HappyNow (I know this is a little unhappy, but I had happy celebrations but I also get happiness feeling I'm not adding to anyone's stress or discomfort).

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