Friday, 1 May 2026

Tell us about water

Walking to Fairy Meadow Beach, Wollongong

I don't have a waterfront house or live at the beach. I am an inner city mouse,without a love of the great outdoors other than as a tourist.I do however, have a strong pull to water. Without thinking, I am drawn to it. I find it calming and it relaxes and resets my emotions.
Lately, I've been reading a little as to why. This Instagram account @Goodneuroscience posted about Blue space. According to this article, blue space is anywhere  natural or man made, dominated by water. Lakes, Oceans, Fountains, you get the idea.












I like to exercise near water, and as I arrive to the harbour, I feel a shift. I feel it like a smile in my body, an inhale and release as I round the corner and see the water for the first time.

I thought it was just me appreciating how lucky I was to live near the beautiful Sydney Harbour. It is, in actual fact, a shift in my autonomic nervous system. This nervous system is what controls heart rate and breathing, among other things. Being near water calms it, increasing the function of the parasympathetic system. (This article goes into detail on the nervous system,  but the short version is it slows heart rate & enhances immunity. The signs of parasympathetic dysfuncion include stress, disturbed sleep, emotional reactivity and lack of energy). 

 

Fairy Meadow Beach, Wollongong






Even just seeing or hearing water for a few minutes can reduce cortisol.  So that feeling is not in your head, as I had assumed it was. It's biological.


The other effect water has is 'soft facination'. This means it draws your attention, without being intrusive. Waves, ripples, a running stream are constantly changing (but not threatening, so you brain engages effortlessly).
I would also add reflections but I don't know if that's part of it (or scientifically correct). I am always scanning for light and reflections in water.

I want to quote the instagram post and I will link directly when I can find it. "Directed attention depletes. When it does you feel mentally exhausted, irritable, and unable to concentrate.

Water gives it space to recover".

So that refreshed feeling after walking by water or lying by the beach is more than just happiness and well being, as I thought. It's a brain reset. This is called Attention Restoration Theory, and you can read more in this article.





The other side affect of this soft fasination is that it quietens the default thinking - the rumination, the running lists in the background, the anxious or negative inner nmonolgue, it all can't start up because your brain in distracted by the water. Again paraphrasing the instagram post, the water gives your brain an anchor that requires no effort and causes no stress.


Blue Mind theory is explained in this article. There are a number of physical and mental benefits from being near water. And you can use that for your good mental health and wellbeing.


This post also has some suggestions how to utilise this information, even if you don't live near water. Scroll to the end.











I found it interesting that I did so much of this intuatively, though I gave the feeling and mental shift I noticed different causes. While I get an F for my natural scientific deduction, I get an A+ for my health influencer ideas...and I really enjoyed reading futher into the subject.

I know it means something else, but it is still applicable. There's truth in the Slovakian proverb 'Pure water is the world’s first and foremost medicine.'

Have you noticed you feel a shift when you spent time near water?

 


18 comments:

  1. Strangely, I am in the middle of writing a piece called The Memory of Waters. I think it overlaps with much you have said.
    Cheers - Stewart M - Melbourne

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    1. The Tell us about... crew have picked WATER as the theme for this month's link up. On Thursday check out Deb's World or Is this Mutton and link your piece there.

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    2. Hi Lydia, I just noticed your comment. In This Mutton left the group some time ago, sadly x

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    3. Oh! I didn't realise! I should have said Suzy Turner the Grey Brunette!

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  2. I love being at the beach, watching the ocean waves.
    We live within walking distance to a local reservoir.
    Being near a body of water seems peaceful to me.
    Take care, have a great day and a happy weekend.

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  3. I think that many of us love the water. I am not actually the biggest fan of beaches, but I love to swim in the ocean and listen to the waves.

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  4. I live about 15 minutes from the beach. It’s wonderful

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  5. I live miles from the nearest beach, but I am in walking distance from a river and we have a local neighborhood park that is up against that river. When my husband and I (or just me, myself) walk in the park we always stop by the water for a few minutes. Some say our ancestors originated in the water, and maybe that's why it does so much for our health. Liked your song choice, too.

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  6. I live about as far from an ocean as one can in the US, but I grew up seeing the Mississippi River every day. My husband makes fun of me that I have to touch the water of every stream, river, lake, or ocean that we encounter in our travels. To me, touching the water is what marks the moment of being there.

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  7. I love the photo at the end of the night sky, cityscape, and water shot! Thanks for sharing some music and joining the party, Lydia. Have a boogietastic week, m'dear!

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  8. I love water! Streams, rivers, lakes, the ocean, they all soothe me!
    www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com

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  9. I love being near the water-- water of any kind!

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  10. When we saw that this house had a pond and a woods, it was sold in my heart. I can watch the pond from my family room and feel the peace ... Michelle

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  11. You have nailed it Lydia, water is such an important thing to us for so many reasons. Thanks for linking up with us and sharing your insights and images.

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  12. What a beautiful post, Lydia! You should join our group and become one of our co-hosts! Let me know if you're interested and I can add you to our emails every month!
    Hugs
    Suzy xx

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    1. I'd love to but I go away for a month of 6 weeks at a time a few times a year (and shut the blog completely) and I think that was considered a problem when it came up before. I'm happy just to join in as I enjoy the challenge. Feel free to discuss amoung yourselves and decide...I'm happy either way. I will be away for the July one, I know that.

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  13. What delightful pictures. I love water and can't imagine being landlocked

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