Tuesday 25 July 2023

False feeling of remoteness


What I love about the Hunter is you feel like you are in the countryside, and at times quite remote, when really, all around you are wineries and amenities. 





Because I live in the city, it's an expanse I rarely see. 

It's a little like what goes on in our head sometimes. We feel lonely but then suddenly a text or when with friends, we realise it was just a momentary feeling, not a true reality.
  


I found this quote by Joseph Roux quite interesting. "Solitude vivifies; isolation kills". There's a difference, between being alone and feeling lonely. One is a luxury or a time for growth and one is dangerous and damaging. But like in the Hunter, most of the time you just need to turn your head to shift the view. 

I found it interesting that Einstein said "It is strange to be known so universally and yet to be so lonely." and Judy Garland said something similar. So the lesson in that to me, is make that phone call you haven't made in awhile. Invite someone out. Organise to get together. Even if it feels like you are the only one making the effort in the friendship, maybe the gesture will make all the difference to that person. Clearly appearances are deceiving. 

As I often say, it starts with you & it starts today. 

RachelSwirlLinking with #HappyTuesday because chasing kangaroos, even a failed attempt, is one of my favourite things to do..... #BlueMonday #NaturesNotes #WeekendReflection #WildBirdWednesday #GardenAffair 



16 comments:

  1. Beautiful photos of the countryside!
    xoxo

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  2. Such beautiful pics! Yes, solitude can be refreshing while isolation is damaging. Your closing message is empowering: "It starts with you & it starts today." Well said!

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  3. Very pertinent observations and advice about loneliness, solitude and isolation. Very beautiful images of an urban refuge (the right kind of isolation).

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  4. First I thought it was a fox crossing the street - but then I saw it is a kangaroo - as you are in Australia - Beautiful pictures - and yes , we should make contacts that we are planning for a long time and never did. Maybe there could be no more opportunity... Have a good time
    Violetta

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  5. ...these are gorgeous landscapes! Thanks for hosting, enjoy your week.

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  6. It is a lovely part of our country, Lydia, and your photos do it justice. Thanks for hosting.

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  7. What lovely photos, I love the colours. I love your quotes too. I've been feeling very lonely for such a long time, even though I'm rarely alone.

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    1. You need to keep an eye on that - maybe talk to a professional while also organising catch ups with people that 'fill your cup' so to speak.

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  8. <<>> I agree but the isolation from COVID still affects my life....thank goodness for the yard...Michelle

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  9. The lighting and subject matter are so lovely.

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  10. Beautiful photos, the light is lovely in these pictures.

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  11. Pretty water scenes, relaxing. I hadn't realized thatr the animal
    crossing the road was a roo either, if not up close it seems natural
    for a cat to be crossing.
    ..

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  12. Lovely scenic views of countryside. The thought about loneliness , choosing solitude from your perspective will be cherished for a lifetime. Thanks for sharing with Garden Affair.

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  13. I love the warmth and tones that you've captured in these shots - Thanks for sharing and for linking up with #MySundaySnapshot.

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