Sharing joy from the Magic House

My kids are growing up and we have so much 'stuff'. I used to drop it at the women's shelter but now they won't take it, so I leave it on the fence for people to take as they come by. And they do. I get a kick everytime something disappears.

The other day a guy just introduced himself to me and said he’s been wanting to meet whoever lived here to thank me. He often took things for his two daughters and they call it the Magic House. He said it had encouraged him not to just throw things away. He then took an expensive book on fossils (for adults) for his 5 year old who wanted to be a scientist. I told him to tell her that the magic house lady says we need more scientists and that’s a very good choice. He said that will encourage her...It was a lovely exchange that carried me through the day.


I love the idea that other children get to enjoy the toys, books and clothes that gave us so many fond memories. I love it even more when they come back and let me know what they've taken over the years.
I love that it encourages others to do the same. 

I'd really love it if I got to see a little Flash come past or visit....

What are you loving this week?

Linking with #AwwMondays because it does make me go Awww. Yesterday I walked out and kids were excitedly picking over 'Street Treasure' and it really lifted my mood.

Sun and Moon

Moon high in daylight

 It has been an uneventful week (or eventful but not anything interesting worth writing about) but as always, the sun and moon are constant, and bring with them stability in the simpliest of pleasures.

very low moon at sunset

Sometimes that has to be enough. There's a quote I can't find attributed to anyone (other than unknown) which I found lovely:
"Everyone wants to be sun that lights up your life. But I’d rather be the moon that shines on you during your darkest hours when you forget the warmth of the sunlight."

Linking with #GaleriaHimmelsblich

Tea, Coffee or what?

In my case the "What" is Gin but as I don't want to sound like an alcoholic, I'll stick to the coffee.
While I am a big herbal tea drinker (I am rarely seen without my T2 tea thermos in hand when out and about), I can not survive without 2 double shot espressos to start the day. With a love of travel, this can prove problematic.
That is, until my genius friend gave me this!

I will admit I was dubious, but this little device has now been a life saver in many countries around the globe where there hasn't been a coffee machine. My headache has been averted...and look at the crema! 

So for coffee lovers on the move, I can't recommend it highly enough!

(Not a paid ad, but an ad all the same as I love it so much! She got it from some online guy in Penrith, but that's all I can help you with.)

Linking with #Lifethisweek.

"Anyone may have diamonds: an heirloom is an ornament of quite a different kind." Elizabeth Aston

We had the youngest's party in a park on the weekend, and I dug out the party cups that I purchased from Ikea 18 odd years ago for our eldest's first birthday. These cups have appeared at many extended family events, at parties in parks all over the city and through the birthday parties of the three children. In the last decade and more, I've not purchased plastic or paper cups for events.

I explained this to one of the mum's who had commented on having so many Ikea cups. She replied "Oh, they're heirlooms! We better make sure they all come home."

When you think about it, they sort of are. They've witnessed a lot of celebrations as my children and their friends and cousins grew up. They are not special or precious in themselves, they're practical, but I now view them in a different light after the comment. Now they make me smile, while I'd never even thought about them before.

Isn't it funny how an offhand comment can change your view of something?

As Faulkner said "Our most treasured family heirloom are our sweet family memories. The past is never dead, it is not even past."

Linking with #BlueMonday and #RubyTuesdayToo

Learning things are not always as they seem

Credit Wikimedia Creative Commons

We are going to Norway, and as I plan our trip, I've been using Lonely Planet and their map which is similar to this one (but this one isn't under copyright).  We are going to the insert. I thought it was just across the way from Tromso (even though the map clearly states it is north), as I am evidently spacially deficient. 

Infact, it is a long way north...as google maps explains below...(and I am clearly an idiot).
 




I have discovered my understanding of how BIG Norway is, was wrong. Having been to Finland and Denmark, I thought it was sort of the same sort of distances, yet every place I plan to visit if much further away than I realised.

With many things in the life, I'm discovering what I thought I knew was wrong. Going to the gaming expo changed my view on video games and the people that play them; going to music festivals changed my view on the kind of people that take drugs and the importance of pill testing; going to a talk on mental health where one of the speakers was intersex made me realise I knew literally nothing at all about their struggles in this society. I had been completely oblivious to this community throughout my whole life.

I am old. I should know a lot more about a lot more things than I do. The good thing is I keep learning, often in unexpected ways.


Perhaps this is the problem with our current society? We hold on to what we believe to be true and see the world incorrectly? Perhaps we all need to be open to continuing our education?




"Our brain is mapping the world. Often that map is distorted, but it's a map with constant immediate sensory input." E. O. Wilson


What have you learnt lately that took you by surprise?

Linking with #OpenSlather  #MLSTL #TwinklyTuesday #GlobalBlogging and #StayClassyMama

The toilet edition...

I was at a bar the other night to see a band, and on the back of the toilet door was this:

I showed my husband who said 'Yes, there's that whole ask for Angela thing'. I pointed out that only worked in bars that had actually put up a sign to say they did that, and it was really just a viral thing about one or two bars in America. Most bartenders here would let you know she didn't work there...

The sign made me love my city a little bit more. That people did look out for each other.

And I obviously wasn't the only one, because on a different door, there was a reply, which echoed my emotional response to the sign, so I wasn't alone in how the gesture made me feel:














At the Belvoir, I noticed they'd added a new sign in between the two toilet doors:







I thought, that would make some people feel safe if there's a problem, just as the Lazybones sign had made me feel safer. Even if you don't need to use it, it's nice to know people have your back and you're welcome and safe. So I could see why the sign mattered, even if it didn't matter to me.








While the government seems to be very anti a number of populations, it's nice to be in communities that aren't. As the saying goes 'The true measure of any Society can be found in how it treats its most vulnerable members.'

I very much enjoyed Life of Galileo, with it's extremely appropriate timing this week and more so, I enjoyed being amongst the arts people, with all their inclusivity & concern for others...A line from the play is very fitting for our times “Unhappy the land that is in need of heroes”. It was nice to be reminded there are still some out there.

Linking with #KCACOLS, #StayClassyMama and #Lifethisweek

“Yes, as everyone knows, meditation and water are wedded for ever.” ― Herman Melville, Moby-Dick

We went for our annual whale watching trip - it was a little disappointing compared to previous years, but alas with nature, there is only so much you can orchestrate.

We did get three breaches, all of which I missed because of scanning the wrong horizon - but I did catch the slashdowns in a Tantalus style punishment...










The weather was nice and the conditions not too bad, and we did see a couple of whales so I can't complain.

There is a certain contentedness that being on the harbour brings, regardless of the purpose and outcome.

I never tire of Sydney from the water.

Have you been whale watching this year?

Linking this old post with #SaturdayCritters because I'm buzzed they saw Orca a few days ago and hoping to maybe get out and see some today!