Ironically titled Out and About

Pink Clouds

In a rather poorly timed post prompt, and as I've spent the week more or less at home (when not at Supermarkets and walking the dog), I've little of interest to offer on the #Lifethisweek's theme of Out and About.













However, yesterday my husband needed something dropped at his office - I drove instead of getting the train like I normally would and parked at the empty Barangaroo point park, then walked through the greenery to get to his office.

I need to maybe try to find an empty outdoor space closer to home as it was a good mood enhancer...














 Have you been staying sane in these isolating days?

















Linking with #GardenAffair (This was my last post before we offically locked down). We currently have 1 case in the community - though a big stuff up with International Arrivals may cause a headache....but for now, we can relax a little and enjoy being out and about!)

“If you cannot find faith in humanity, be the faith in humanity.” – Anonymous

Just when I thought we had reached despicable new lows as a nation, I heard this story:
Busloads of Melbourne (and apparently Bendigo) people - 200 or so, are descending on supermarkets in small towns (one of 1500 people) and stripping their shelves of food. Of everything.
What kind of people think of doing this? I hope their shame at their greed and selfishness eats at them. Somehow I doubt it. I can't even put into words the disgust I have at the type of people we have become. EDIT: Apparently this was made up. So made up people are the kind of people that do this. Why would people make that up? I am thankful it is not a real behaviour.

Conversely, in my little bubble of a neighbourhood, I was happy to see a story where a woman gave a shout out on FB to the owner of Adult World in Newtown, who after hearing her Nan complain about not being able to get any toilet paper anywhere, offered to organise to fix her up with some, and did. A complete stranger.

This was thrown over the fence by the Salvation Army. The card is hanging on a string we can hang on a door knob so it doesn't get lost. There is a phone number to call for help and their address. I will be donating the roll we were gifted to a guy that lives in a boarding house down the road, as they probably only got one for the lot of them.

If you are reading what is going on in the world, the SARS experienced countries have a mentality of all being in this together - there's no rush on the supermarkets, there's not even a mask shortage and everyone does their bit. This article on Taiwan is worth reading, they had their first case yesterday after a 40 day break. The election proved how selfish we really were, but now it's coming back not just on the poor, disabled and the LBGT people, now we're taking it out on the elderly, infirm and basically everyone and anyone. We need to change our mentality and gain a sense of social responsibility if we are to survive this.

For me personally, there's a number of local elderly or immune compromised (or struggling on pensions) people I've sent my number to so they have help if they need it. I need to talk to my husband about offering to take my neighbours kids if the school shuts. He is a doctor in a hospital and it will affect his ability to do important work at this time. However, it will also make the kids high risk of carrying COVID and we are already 6 in the house so that will push us up to almost 10 - that's a big group to infect if one person brings it into the house. I need to weigh up the pros and cons (and, of course, it all depends what is legally allowed by then). I am not that young myself, but still young enough to not be too worried, if I'm careful.

This was posted by a friend last night. Please donate. I have already seen hospitality workers and travel industry workers asking for jobs (any jobs) and my own daughter has had her shifts cut to what appears to be once a week so they can share the now limited shifts around.

"OUR COMMUNITY NEEDS FOOD - PLEASE DONATE NOW!!!

The demand for affordable groceries is shooting through the roof. Addison Road Community Organisation's FOOD PANTRY has seen a growth in customers of more than 20% every week for the last month.

Food is a basic human right. Hunger is an injustice. We need your help now to keep affordable food and household items on the shelves for the most vulnerable people in our communities.

DONATE NOW to make sure the people who need it most can buy food – many of our new customers are casual workers who have lost jobs due to the COVID-19 crisis and the economic effects of the summer bushfires.

Donations can be made by clicking on link below. Thank you.

https://addiroad.org.au/donations/donate-now/" or donate to a general FoodBank appeal

I am changing Richard M. Rorty's words slightly but very applicable in these strange days 'disgust with Australian hypocrisy and self-deception was pointless unless accompanied by an effort to give Australia reason to be proud of itself in the future'. If you are not proud of the way people are behaving, don't follow suit. If you are one of these many Christians that apparently need LBGT abused & treated as second class citizens legally, start showing you at least adhere to some Christian values. Let's stop this appalling behaviour and set a new standard. Let's copy the better, kinder nations. Let's take the actions that let us be proud to be Australian again.

It starts with you, and it starts today.

Linking with #Spreadthekindness

Where does the rainbow end, in your soul or on the horizon?” ― Pablo Neruda

 It's been a grey and miserable weekend - not brilliant for social distancing...In the dreary days to come, keep looking for the rainbows. Try to share the hope around. We are all going to need it.

Linking with #SayCheese #PictorialTuesday #WordlessWednesday #MySundayBest #WWOAT #WWOT #OurWorldTuesday

“It is easy to believe we are each waves and forget we are also the ocean.” ― Jon J. Muth

My neighbourhood had steered clear of the toilet paper panic. Until this weekend. A neighbour on a pension told my husband that the local IGA had been cleared out of toilet paper. I said I could get him some, as so far, I've been in my own Truman Show where none of this craziness was a problem. I'm currently trying to share the money to the small corner shops (as they'll be hit hard in the lockdown), and discovered I was gouged at $8 for a 6 pack in my do-goodery. I will admit I was annoyed when I figured it out, as I do expect more from our people in the neighbourhood. But I'd already tapped and paid, so I gifted it to our neighbour and kept the price secret. I can afford to waste $8. He cannot. I had been proud of my neighbourhood at their lack of hysteria but I guess even they've fallen. Try to support the smaller businesses if you can (though maybe not if they're gouging), the big chains will survive. The little guys may not.

I have taken heart that on the local FB page, a lot of people are trying to work out how to look after the elderly and those with mobility issues. How to get them supplies.  I like that there are people offering boxes of home grown produce to those in need.










Neighbours are meant to look out for each other. If your neighbourhood isn't, then it's time for you to start. Start with one specific person if necessary, but start all the same. It can be small and easy - I shop for a 96 year old neighbour. It's minimal effort for me but provides weekly support for her. I am a little worried about what happens in the lockdown. On Friday I made her watch from the lounge room while I unpacked the groceries, and I sanitised before walking in. I'm not sick but I worry about the infectious period with no symptoms. We need to be very mindful of our role as infectors, not just getting sick ourselves.


Now is a time we need to rally together. Make sure no one is left behind. It's time to stop the everyman for himself attitude because we won't survive this if we're selfish. We need to be on the lookout for those in need. We need to share the spending around. We need to think a little more about what we're doing.

We need to be good neighbours.

The happiest people I know are people who don't even think about being happy. They just think about being good neighbors, good people. And then happiness sort of sneaks in the back window while they are busy doing good.

Harold S. Kushner

Do you have ideas on how we can help people during the lock down? Please share below.

Or if you are out of lockdown, have you made helping your neighbours and those in need a priority?

Linking with #Blogtober21 because when I read the prompt, this photo of a car was the first thing that sprung to mind and we're still in lockdown so it all still applies really....

The great thing about new friends is that they bring new energy to your soul. -Shanna Rodriguez

I stumbled across this article on how to make new friends as an adult. I initially thought 'Outside of the kids' schools, I've never made new friends since Uni or work'. But then I realised this wasn't true. I started the Wednesday Club and a friend invited her friend as a regular. That other person has no kids and I like to go out more than most, so often, she's my 'yes man'. The person who I ask when I need someone to do something with. We like similar things, and have broad interests, so anything on science or philosophy, she's become my first point of call.

I then realised last year I also made a new friend at a friend's 50th. We started talking and at the end of the night she asked to FB friend me. I was a little taken aback, to be honest, but didn't want to be rude so said yes. We have political issues in common so frequently discuss those and she's coming to the Festival of Dangerous Ideas with me.

Of course it would be remiss not to mention the blogging friends - an online world of contact that extends into real life from time to time.

So while I agree it's harder to make friends in later years, and outside of work, it is still possible if you put yourself out there.

I think the world gets as small as we let it.

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.-Anaïs Nin
Have you kept adding to your circle? Linking with #TwinklyTuesday #KCACOLS and #StayClassyMama

Tourist Sydney

We had a gorgeous time showing friends from Greece around last week.

On the harbour.



In the bush...

















To the beach.

West Head Beach

With some native wildlife. In the wild. Sort of. (Technically in the toilet and then the car park and THEN the bush.)



From high...



















And low.

I live here but every time I show off its features, I fall a little more in love with my beautiful city.


If you don't love Sydney, you just aren't doing it right....

Linking with #H20Thursday

 

The great virus toilet paper shortage...

Our government chose to call the pandemic early, but then proceeded to not really implement any protocols. If you look at Singapore, the Gold standard, or Thailand and Vietnam, they have active protocols in place for all work places and crossing (temps taken before getting on a boat to an island etc., schools closed, doctors are visiting homes rather than sick people going to centres and so on). Whether it does anything, as the infectious period starts before that, who knows. It has, however, appeared to put confidence in the people.

We, on the other hand, were told to buy a few cans and some extra rolls of toilet paper.

And as you know, this has caused panic and mayhem if you want to buy any toilet paper or pasta. Yesterday's news also came with the charming story of people wanting their dogs put down because of the virus.

We have just been through massive bushfires. If you want to go crazy on supplies, head to a fire affected community and spend big there.

Do not be distracted by the SM chaos and make sure the bush fire rebuilding is happening. 

Most of all, keep an eye on this government and where our money is. It is easy to forget what is important if you are distracted with chaos.

Lastly, wash your hands more frequently. Do not cough or sneeze near people - always have a tissue to cough into. Wear a mask if sick, no matter how mild. Remember it starts with a scratchy throat, so get that checked out and self-isolate if you feel that coming on, well before the temperature spike. Let the doctor know when booking the appointment that is what you are worried about, so they can arrange for you not to infect the waiting room.

Use common sense, and try to not be selfish. You are trying to not spread the infection, as much as you are trying not to get infected.

We already have a crumbling economy and rising unemployment - let's not speed things up with further mismanagement.

And as we all learnt from The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, “Don't Panic.”

Linking with #MLSTL. 

If you do feel the need to buy toilet paper in bulk, please buy from here. Who Gives A Crap. Delivers to your door (no need to infect anyone) and builds toilets around the world. If you want to freak out about diseases, the increase in viruses due to the impact of climate change and lack of toilets is terrifying  - as discussed in one of these two podcasts - can't remember which one. Cameron Webb – Climate change and the rise of mosquitoes or Jacqueline Thomas – The value of human waste

These fabulous people do have hand sanitiser and also help women in refuges, escaping violence and homelessness.